Naughty Wife Flings

So you are convinced you know the right way to give her an orgasm? Research reveal that at least 79% of women state that the men that they have had sexual intercourse with have failed to make them have an orgasm. Some of that is as a result of the years and years of stigma that modern society has linked to the female orgasm. In spite of this we men have to share a big part of the fault as well, to be truthful the vast majority of men haven’t got the slightest clue about how you can give her an orgasm. Well not anymore.

Get her in the mood in the course of the day. Whisper the things you are intending to do to her, send her naughty texts, start getting her aroused early, so by the time you are alone, she is already aroused.

The tongue and mouth are tremendous things, used effectively they can send your girl to the stars and back. Perhaps even more important given that the majority of women really don’t cum by means of penetrative vaginal sex. In reality the vast majority of women climax through clitoral stimulation. So you seriously need to learn how to make use of your tongue and mouth.

We all have a ton of erogenous zones, find what works for your girl. It could be the ears, feet, nape of the neck, small of the back, inner thighs, breasts, belly button. Do not just go for the obvious ones like boobs, explore the whole body and caress it, tickle it, kiss it, lick it until her she is aroused.

When you find your self down in between her legs, you should not clamp yourself there just coming up for air, do not give the impression the goal is to get her to orgasm…this will definitely make it much more difficult. Let her feel you are there only to arouse and give her a good time. Softly explore the outer and inner lips, caress the clitoris, dart your tongue in and out of the vagina. Vary the pressure you apply with your tongue, switch between firm and soft feather like brushes.

One thing I like to do is to lightly place the closed mouth over the clitoris and hum gently. You may well not believe it, the vibration from your mouth will pulse directly up the clit and make her just moan and groan with bliss. I equally like to blow on the vagina and clit after getting it all wet, this creates a lovely cool sensation.

Gently place a finger or 2 inside the vagina and massage the G spot. Do that with oral stimulation of the clit for the best results.

Depends upon on how at ease you both are, do not overlook the area around her anus, this a huge amount of nerve endings and is especially sensitive, lightly licking it will give a different dimension of arousal.

I choose to not go for the home run in one visit down there. I like to let the energy and heat increase with some oral, next move to another part of the body, possibly her feet or breasts or a different erogenous zone, and then come back to her vagina for some more oral. Like this the heat builds and builds, so when she does climax, it will literally blow her mind. Slowing the orgasm tends to make it far more powerful mainly because the sexual energy has time to move up and all through the body; don’t forget an orgasm is meant to be a entire body experience. This one particular technique will give her profound orgasms and leave her trembling uncontrollably, and perhaps even induce her to faint, I’ve seen that first hand.

I like to mix up oral sex and vaginal sex; apart from the G spot, the vagina does not have a massive number of sensitive areas, so I choose to focus on oral stimulation of the clitoral area. During intercourse, you want to apply pressure to the clitoris. You can accomplish this successfully by positioning a pillow underneath her bottom to change the angle of penetration and then by grinding your pubic bone in a circular motion against her clitoris. Furthermore vary the speed and depth of your thrusting, don’t rush and pay attention to her body movements and her moans.

So guys, you have no excuse now. Go home and make your woman grin ear to ear and be her best lover ever.